Life is full of uncertainty! You could be diagnosed with cancer! Your spouse could be fucking someone else! Your child could get hit by a bus! Your favorite teacher could be a pedophile! Your best friend could actually hate you! You could be adopted and you don’t even know it! Everything you know to be true could be false! FUCK! What is up is down!?!? Embrace the uncertainty!!!
What do we get from all this?
Valuable learning experiences!!!
People will choose to make their own fucking terrible decisions irrespective of logic or consequence to others… exactly like your thoughts, they will throw up whatever is going to grab your attention… in the end, they are just thoughts, or they are just people… so fuck them, they don’t matter as much as you think. Focus on you and your own value driven actions. In the end, we are all just people making decisions (albeit sometimes stupid decisions, but decisions nonetheless)… look, all I’m trying to say is that life is chaos and that this chaos is okay! Embrace it when it happens because it will make your personal story have beautiful breadth. People are people and thoughts are thoughts.
I AM NOT SAYING: throw your cautions to the wind!
WHAT I AM SAYING: allow yourself to grow from the uncertainty that befalls you! Strengthen your values and use everything as an opportunity to help redefine your own greatness.
Why? Because life is unfair and life sucks, but that is what makes life better! Your ability to POSITIVELY respond to the shit that life throws your way is your ability to be a happier person… you will know greater happiness because of your efforts!
“That which does not kill us makes us stronger.”
– Friedrich Nietzsche